
Learning to go with the flow does not mean to be a follower. Stop resisting the change and go with the flow is a great lesson to learn and master.
Change is uncomfortable. It is because we all try to control our lives within our prediction; creating the security and certainty. We go to school, we graduate, then we find a good job, find a partner, get married, start a family, have kids, luckily we can afford to buy a house, hoping we can keep our good jobs for the rest of our lives, retire and die. Does this sound familiar?
We create "comfort zones" for ourselves; as evident as the side of bed we sleep in. Have you ever wondered why you love the left side more than the right, or the vice versa? Is there something wrong with the other side? The answer is no. But it is our routine, it is our familiar ground, our turf and we have control over it. We are COMFORTABLE.
Someone once told me: when we try to keep things the same, we often end up holding onto people and situations that we shouldn't, and ignoring the possibilities for transformation that are presented to us.
Numerous events occurred in the past year, and they all point to breaking away from the predictable life (just like the one above). No matter what I have done to resist the change (because I am scared), it seems that the higher power has pushed me into the same direction. 3 months ago, I decide to take the risk and leap into the unknown. I no longer want to see fear robbing away my life. I need to grow and challenge myself and I want to become a person that I always long to become but I just never have the time to do so (previously). There is no better time than any time. The longer I delay the decision, the longer I work for someone else's dream that I remotely believe in. I will never know if I never leap. I give up a comfortable pay cheque, I learn and become more efficient and resourceful. Life become simpler but refreshing. I get to know my "real self" in this experience and most of all, I am working on what I love.
We can't stop the wave, but we can learn how to surf, right?